We want well convey the complaints to boyfriend. To three points and four of taboo

We want well convey the complaints to boyfriend. To three points and four of taboo - boyfriend I want skillfully convey the discontent. Three points and four of taboo

is the remedy when there is dissatisfaction with boyfriend?

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are unhappy with boyfriend, do you do? How far I think that sometimes get lost what is better to say from where you stand. Now, once you endure, does not improve the current situation is a workaround that waves and winds are not stand. Again, just because I want to go out with friends in the future, we should tell each other Let's refreshing to tell very well!

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What should I do if it is dissatisfied with the boyfriend?

but are unhappy with the boyfriend, if that has been put up, there is a criteria that you properly I think we do not have to endure on. Only fear the vague relationship worse, in fact, it's also that you do not seem to have a better way. First calmly, at the falling position minus one step, let's take a look at what to do to act.

once, one of these methods to try at a distance

unexpectedly effect there's there is, is the way that try to put a once distance. It has become invisible and are close on a daily basis, sometimes come into view by placing a distance. In addition, not only a partner, can also time to reflect on things yourself, you will be able to overlook the whole situation calmly. In that sense, the distance of that put is of a forward-looking way.

In addition, if there is no activity for the current state of the remains was put up, because there is a case in which stress is accumulated would calmly no longer be able to judge things, placing the distance is the heart There is also be a chance to revert to a neutral state. Then, to leave temporarily from stress, there is also an important goal heal tired of my mind.

destination ask the complaints to yourself

when he cut out the dissatisfaction of the boyfriend, I think you are of that it is difficult to say that suddenly. In such times, there is also a method of the boyfriend before I asked the complaints to yourself. If after hearing the complaints to yourself, you can also create an easy-to say the situation here of dissatisfaction. In fact, listening to the complaints to yourself, realize that you did not realize myself, it can sometimes be a plus of each other.

, for example, "is not that you have to put up with the attention to me?", "Do I want to talk in real intention", "Tell me a place where I want to fix because I want to be more in harmony", etc., of Futari When shown a positive captures the attitude of the relationship, he will, obediently story. That way, you will be able to their own dissatisfaction also convey a gentle feeling.

calmly, convey the frustration and feelings to him

men, I think in many poor people is to a long story than women. And, the fact that the us is drew something even if silently, would be nice to think that there is no almost. However, the high of is likely to us to understand to talk properly. In fact, to become a point when you tell the dissatisfaction in boyfriend, it is to calmly talk. Excitedly, it is NG is to hit only dissatisfaction to Atamagonashi.

and, as a feature of the thinking of the man, said to be analytical and logical than women. Emotionally, rather than because I do not want, why dissatisfied of, or become what the feeling, is what specifically convey more effectively whether I want you to. Once you understand, he also, my How good to do is to understand Once you will me moved to action.

and walked each other, look for points that can be convinced of the middle

Of course, he is also a human being you also. And, everyone is not perfect. If you have any problems, you little that either in a 100% cause. In addition, the I want to know is, values ​​is that everyone is not the same. In other words, it is "usually" or likely to become in going around in circles even talk in terms of "the common sense".

Therefore, the same way that I'll also hear his dissatisfaction with your complaint, it has become a very important attitude to each other compromise. At that time, such as in the case of he a poor talker, it is also effective to'll prompting from you as he is easy to talk to. Then, for that there is dissatisfaction, and put up little by little to each other, let's look for the point that you can convince per the middle of Futari.

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3 one of the things that you want to consciousness when he to convey the dissatisfaction

anyone at the time to convey the complaints to boyfriend is really tend to become emotional. However, So it does not may become a parallel line opponent also becomes emotional. Let's tell the good while holding the tips.

not the words to criticize, also presented improvements

good to boyfriend convey the complaints to trick is that you do not how to say that to criticize. "You are, sloppy person can not keep the time," I say that is clearly criticized the opponent's personality. It is if the "If delayed, I want you to much contact because to worry about", is also not stand the corner we have to focus on how I want to, but also fulfill the purpose of telling the discontent.

here that is the point, and that you do not boyfriend the subject, is to be presented together also improvements in time to tell the complaints.

without Tamekoma, problem pluck within small

people who have to put up much of the dissatisfaction with the boyfriend, please try a little stopped. Be put up in this state, only painful will spend while patience and always will be. Not a solution even though Toritsukuro' the surface to put off the problem. You are, if you think really would like to spend a good time with the boyfriend in the future, it is necessary to tell neatly courage.

say that without Tamekoma, Chaimashou picked to one small problem.

to devise a way of speaking

dissatisfied with boyfriend when it tells is quite effective to devise a way of speaking. Because the content is such for the complaints, in the rigid atmosphere was tense, you will not be able to open each other mind. To create a calm atmosphere, let's talk in a calm slow tone. Tone of voice can be somewhat is lower better speak to not myself emotionally.

last, a goal is to improve the problem walked, not the purpose of blame intimidating the party from the head. That it is hard, if so politely tell how I want to, he also, you should be able to become the attitude of trying to understand nature.

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and four of taboo when he to convey the discontent?

when he to convey the discontent, say the same as if to devise effective of a, reverse , there he is also the opposite effect of how to tell would be brought to an unpleasant feeling. If make a mistake how to tell, he might also become the reaction of rejection. So, what kind of how to tell Let's see if NG is.

blame as saying that the opposite effect

him much trouble, tell the dissatisfaction even though it has already been the cornerstone, it is NG to say so blame the Atamagonashi. He also, as well as had been aware of his non, will not obediently accepted if Rarere unilaterally blame. Atmosphere also becomes bad, you might miss the chance of a long-awaited improvement.

when to tell, while showing understanding to his situation at that time, when on to say in the form to ask rather than instruction, you can tell soft.

to cite the others will pressure

people is something to be unpleasant when it is compared to the others. For example, if out the name of the friends say things like "Do not say in boyfriend of ○○ chan gently", implicitly, it is like saying that "are you compared to it." He is compared with the boyfriend, along with the feel a great pressure, it will become Ousset also the feeling that you Aratameyo the place their own bad.

roundabout without trying to appeal better to him conveyed the feelings in the fastball is, I think in so the future is also not poised to each other, it can be oneself.

bring up the past of dissatisfaction NG

[1945009and] are pooled and complaints from the usual, as soon as was one of the complaints in the mouth, with, "was like this even at that time, it, at that time also," said, would have brought out the past of dissatisfaction is not in this story tend. Feelings I know, but this time, a good idea is better to have kept to this problem. He is not only unpleasant seems to be out of bad in all my actions everyday, to know to have been dissatisfied in silence all the way, you'll be entertaining you in a sense of mistrust.

in the first place, and has accumulated a complaint from the usual, will recall when there is a chance one after another, it becomes want to eliminate even the complaints. In that sense, by storing the dissatisfaction with patience earnestly, good thing is there's no nothing.

In the letter only of e-mail, not Kumitore feelings

is different in the case of simple content of the work and daily life, but in cases such as convey the dissatisfaction in boyfriend, the most effective thing is, is that the actual meet and talk face-to-face. The next is to use the e-mail you want to avoid telephone, and most. Just because hardly complained is face-to-face to say, let's quit spell the feeling in the mail. E-mail is the information of only the characters, it is what one-sided.

opponent of expression also, in a state that does not know the tone of voice, boyfriend also, on the nuances and spirit is not Kumitore, you also can not speak while checking the reaction of the boyfriend. Again, because is important, let's to tell looking at the face of neatly opponent.

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precisely because important presence, trying to convey neat!

What would a good opponent, even, I think we are not worried and want to somehow even if there is dissatisfaction. Has complained to the boyfriend, that worry is, it is, because it's there irreplaceable you wish he had to together ever for you. Together where two Once you solve the problem, it will further bond becomes stronger. Do not worry, he surely, will respond with a smile.

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